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The SEND Navigate Library

Books for Parents Navigating EBSA, PDA, and SEN

Four books for the moments this site can’t fully cover in an afternoon of reading. Written by Stephen Mallett — former headteacher and SENCo, 25 years inside the UK school system, and a parent navigating this himself. Each is available in paperback and Kindle.

EBSA: The Morning Crisis Survival Guide

What to Do When Your Child Can't Get Through the School Gates

The tactical companion for the mornings that fall apart in real time. Not a book to read cover-to-cover before you need it — a book to open at 7:15am when nothing is working.

What’s inside
  • The 4 D's — a minute-by-minute crisis decision tree
  • The Partial Attendance Strategy for negotiating a safe path back
  • Ready-to-send letter templates for school and the LA
  • The EHCP-readiness checklist
Kindle — view on Amazon →Paperback — coming very soon

Free on this site: .

Not Refusing. Unable.

The UK Parent's Manual for School Distress, EBSA, and the Way Through

If your child can’t go to school, this is the book for you. Not late. Not refusing. Not "just anxious." Unable. The manual you open at 7am in the kitchen, when there’s nothing left to try.

What’s inside
  • The Sanctuary Home Protocol
  • The Won't vs Can't distinction
  • The Inarguable Evidence Binder
  • Section 19, EHCP, EOTAS — the routes that force the system to act

Free on this site: .

PDA Survival Guide

When Everyday Demands Feel Too Much

Calm, practical support for parents whose child experiences a persistent drive to resist everyday demands — written for the specific, exhausting logic of a PDA profile, not generic parenting advice bent to fit.

What’s inside
  • The 72-Hour Reset Planner
  • Phrase Swaps & Scripts
  • School Conversation Guides
  • Complete Parent Resource Workbook

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The Parent's Shield

The Complete Legal Guide for Parents Navigating the SEND System

The Local Authority is counting on you not knowing your rights. This is the private advocate in your pocket — the legal guide for forcing assessment, fighting a draft EHCP, winning at Tribunal, and stopping unlawful provision cuts.

What’s inside
  • Force a Local Authority to assess your child — even after refusal
  • Read and fight a draft EHCP, section by section
  • Win at SEND Tribunal — and know when to appeal
  • Secure Disability Living Allowance using the 'Worst Day' framework
  • Stop unlawful provision cuts at Annual Review

Free on this site: .

Books are sold and delivered by Amazon, and current prices are shown there. The free guides, letter templates and resources on this site remain free — the books go further for parents who want the whole method in one place.