When attendance has broken down, begin with a calm, written picture of what is happening.
Reviewed 30 August 2026 · Educational information and preparation, not legal advice or medical advice.
Before writing, gather a short attendance timeline, what your child experiences before and during school, any health information you choose to share, and the support already tried. Keep the focus on access to education and wellbeing rather than blame.
Three small, informed moves
Make a simple record
Note dates, attendance, patterns of distress, adjustments attempted and the impact on learning. A concise factual record is easier for school and the local authority to understand.
Ask for one joined-up conversation
Request a meeting with a named lead. Ask what support is in place, how attendance is recorded, what evidence the school needs to consider and when the plan will be reviewed.
Clarify the education question
If your child is not receiving suitable education, ask the local authority to explain how it is considering its duties. Section 19 is about suitable education where a child may not receive it because of illness, exclusion or otherwise.
Editable request: a joined-up attendance and education plan
Adapt the wording to your family’s facts. Attach only information you are comfortable sharing, and keep a copy of what you send.
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